Have you ever asked yourself, how can I experience success?
This is not an easy question and I am not sure there is an actual definitive correct answer.
This is because everyone’s definition of what constitutes success will be unique to themselves alone.
For one, “Success Mountain” might be having a net worth of a million dollars.
Perhaps it could be dreaming up and acting on a business idea that not only earned significant profits for you and your family, but provided society with something useful and valuable.
For another it could be, being a parent to a happy, healthy well-adjusted child, the result of a committed, long-term loving relationship.
Someone else may consider that learning to read and write as an adult after a lifetime of illiteracy the pinnacle of achievement.
Yet another may think that just getting through to the end of the week and their next pay-cheque and having all the bills paid and food on the table as significant success.
“Success is doing approximately the right thing at exactly the right time” – Richard Pratt
The truth around “Success” is that it means different things to different people.
The mistake most people make is that they try to compare someone else’s “success” with their own.….That’s a recipe for unhappiness.
If you examine your life, I bet you can find at least one thing, and likely a whole lot more things that you have been or continue to be successful at.
Take a moment and think of one.
The late great Jim Rohn used to say “Success is easy – just find out what failures do, and then don’t do that”.
So here are my observations of the Top Ten things that successful people do….
- Marry the right person – this one decision will likely determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
- Only work at something you enjoy – nothing more soul destroying than wasting your “one half of one second of life” doing something that you hate each day.
- Be grateful – every day I think of at least five things that I am grateful for, no matter what kind of day I am having. And guess what – after that exercise, I am usually having a great day.
- Be generous – ever heard of karma? And what goes around, comes around? It is part of the circle of life. Your giving can change the world.
- Take responsibility – if you spend any time blaming others for your ills, then nothing can change, because “it’s someone else fault”. You are in charge of your decisions.
- Persistence, persistence – so often we hear stories of those who gave up just before “success” happened. Be persistent.
- Commit to continuous improvement – every day I endeavour to learn at least one new thing. In the last 2 years I have done two x 12 month courses – on corporate finance & becoming a key person of influence – both things I felt would contribute to my “success”.
- Be Honest – do what you say you will. People will come to know whether you are a person of your word or not.
- Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know – positivity and enthusiasm are infectious. Make sure you surround yourself with these types of people.
- Have a success plan – that is, written goals and desires. Know what you want in life financially, personally, physically and in your relationships. From this plan, stems your action.
It’s not so hard really.